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		<title>Now is the time</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jun 2010 00:56:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shawn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;All of us have unique talents and gifts. No obstacle, be it physical, mental, or emotional has the power to destroy our own creative energies.&#8221; ~ Liane Cordes Believing this fully is difficult at times; for some of us, most of the time. But it is true. What each of us can contribute to the [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;All of us have unique talents and gifts.  No obstacle, be it physical, mental, or emotional has the power to destroy our own creative energies.&#8221; ~ Liane Cordes</p>
<p>Believing this fully is difficult at times; for some of us, most of the time.  But it is true.  What each of us can contribute to the world is unlike every other, any other, contribution.  Each talent is slightly different from every other talent.  They are all needed.  We are all needed.</p>
<p>Creativity &#8211; any kind &#8211; writing, photography, cooking, child care, weaving, managing, woodworking &#8211; nourishes the self that feels isolated and worthless.  And as the self is nourished, it grows; it recovers.</p>
<p>Growth means changing our lifestyle.  It means reaching out to others and being there for one another.  It means rejoining the human race by giving of ourselves.  Our talents are the gifts the human race awaits, needs, in fact.  Do we know our talents?</p>
<p>-    Adapted from an entry in Each Day a New Beginning</p>
<p>This period of time in history is a rich one.  Rarely have there been so many choices and possibilities available.  That&#8217;s the good news.  The more challenging news is that this is also a time when we are being called to step up into more of who we truly are, more of who we&#8217;ve been created to be.  If we&#8217;ve been playing small, it&#8217;s time to play a bigger game.  If we&#8217;ve not nourished our souls, now&#8217;s the time to start doing so.  If we haven&#8217;t been sharing our precious gifts, it&#8217;s time to be bolder and braver and begin sharing them with the world&#8230;even if it is just one person at a time.  Now&#8217;s the time to be bringing forth the gifts the world needs&#8230;even if we deem our gifts small or insignificant; even if the world (as yet) seems to pooh-pooh those gifts.  Now is the time, as women, to support one another and support the gifts that each of us have been blessed with.</p>
<p>Dear ones, now is the time!  Which of your many gifts are you willing to share with your world?  What small, sweet step can you take today to bring your gifts forward?</p>


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		<title>Bringing out Brilliance</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Dec 2009 17:35:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shawn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bringing your best forward with heart.  Bringing forth your excellence, your brilliance, in whatever your arena.


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Anyone who has known me through one winter knows that I am a somewhat pathetic basketball fan.  Why?  Well, it probably started in junior high when the boys I liked were on the &#8220;tall and skinny&#8221; side &#8211; perfect for playing basketball.  (You started it, Jimmy LaChance, wherever you are!)  But once I started going to games and getting over just watching my current crush, I found I loved basketball.  There was something about the long, lean athleticism that reminded me of dance, and I loved it!</p>
<p>Fortunately, I married a man who is also passionate about basketball and we go in on season tickets for the local basketball team &#8211; the Sacramento Kings.  What&#8217;s all this got to do with being vibrant and spirit-based business?  Tons, actually!  In today&#8217;s paper, there was an article about Teams of the Decade, highlighting a Kings team of several years ago: Chris Webber, Vlade Divac, Peja Stojakovic, Doug Christie, and Mike Bibby (alternately, Jason Williams).  OMG!  They were absolutely THE most fun and exciting team to watch.  They were serious about the game, great athletes, playing to win.  They, in my mind, were all about excellence.  Playing their best and bringing out the best in each other.  They were a TEAM.  And they played with heart and excellence.</p>
<p><a href="http://vibrantlyalivewomen.com/1169/bringing-out-brilliance/"><em>Click here to view the embedded video.</em></a></p>
<p>Bringing your best forward with heart.  Bringing forth your excellence, your brilliance, in whatever your arena.  That&#8217;s what we need to root ourselves in, nurture and allow to grow.  Our own excellence, our own brilliance, the gifts we were meant to share.</p>
<p>I really feel we are entering a new &#8230;. something.  A new phase of our evolution?  The End Days?  A new paradigm?  Only God knows!  But since so many things are changing, it might be time for those of us who&#8217;ve tended to hide out to start coming out of hiding and sharing our gifts with others.  And keep at it until we can acknowledge that we are brilliant at something, that we&#8217;ve been given some pretty amazing gifts to share.</p>
<p>Blessings to all,</p>
<p>kamala</p>


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		<title>Oh, you bright lights</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 17:50:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shawn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oh, you bright lights of my heart! The time is drawing near and you need to rise, to shake off the “bonds” of sleep and prepare for your new work.  Wipe the sleep from your eyes.  Stand and be filled with the Light that you are meant to carry and hold for others. Wake from [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, you bright lights of my heart!</p>
<p>The time is drawing near and you need to rise, to shake off the “bonds” of sleep and prepare for your new work.  Wipe the sleep from your eyes.  Stand and be filled with the Light that you are meant to carry and hold for others.</p>
<p>Wake from your slumber, let yourself feel the excitement of your new undertakings!  Remember who you are!  Remember your gifts and your purpose here!  Find the other ones who will help to remind you of how to nourish your Light and  keep it glowing, that you may light the way for those who come next.</p>
<p>Let my call to you stir that still, small voice in your soul.  Let the voice waken and move you to say ‘yes!’ to your deepest calling.  You are not tiny stars, you are beacons of light meant to show so many the way.  My beloveds, let the voice of your heart be lifted in a resounding “YES!” to your own true calling.</p>


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		<title>Becoming Kamala</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 02:21:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shawn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Over the last several years, I&#8217;ve thought of changing my name to my spiritual name, Kamala. I love the way it sounds and the way it feels inside when it&#8217;s said. When over the course of several days last week, I had what felt like incredible openings and shifts. Breakdowns and breakthroughs. And now, it [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Over the last several years, I&#8217;ve thought of changing my name to my spiritual name, Kamala.  I love the way it sounds and the way it feels inside when it&#8217;s said.  When over the course of several days last week, I had what felt like incredible openings and shifts.  Breakdowns and breakthroughs.  And now, it feels that this is the time to become Kamala.   To stand in my strength and power, given me (us) by God.  I know it is time to step up in a bigger way; that the world is needing us in a way we haven&#8217;t known before.  Can you feel it?<a href="http://vibrantlyalivewomen.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/57854854_2f6dcdf3a1_m.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1023 alignright" title="57854854_2f6dcdf3a1_m" src="http://vibrantlyalivewomen.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/57854854_2f6dcdf3a1_m.jpg" alt="57854854_2f6dcdf3a1_m" width="191" height="127" /></a></p>
<p>Kamala does things differently than Shawn did.  I love the energy I feel within me now that I&#8217;m stepping in to the carrying of this &#8220;new&#8221; name.  And I relish the idea that for the rest of my life I can be called by a name I like, that feels good to me!  Life&#8217;s really too short to go by a name that we don&#8217;t care for!</p>
<p>These are exciting times, aren&#8217;t they?  Those of us who are being stirred have some wonderful work to do!  And, boy, do I fantasize it being all &#8220;easy.&#8221;  We&#8217;ll see!</p>
<p>We have to start valuing ourselves.  We have to honor the light we carry and be willing to let it shine, vibrantly.</p>
<p>blessings,</p>
<p>kamala</p>


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		<title>Learning to love being vulnerable</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 03:12:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shawn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I wonder if it is possible to love being vulnerable in the United States, or most of the world, at this time in history. It&#8217;s one of those very weird things where people often love the quality in others, but wouldn&#8217;t want that same quality themselves. I understand we can relate more with someone who&#8217;s [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wonder if it is possible to love being vulnerable in the United States, or most of the world, at this time in history.  It&#8217;s one of those very weird things where people often love the quality in others, but wouldn&#8217;t want that same quality themselves.  I understand we can relate more with someone who&#8217;s shown vulnerability.  But, most times, who wants to be vulnerable.</p>
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<p>I&#8217;m cranky about being vulnerable.  I&#8217;ve been told that my vulnerability is one of my greatest gifts.  Well, I&#8217;ll tell you, it&#8217;s not one I particularly appreciate&#8230;at least not in many business situations.  Gotta look good, gotta be on top of things, gotta make a good impression.  Darn!  I hate that.  Oh, no!  I shouldn&#8217;t hate it!  Oh, no!  I shouldn&#8217;t &#8220;should!&#8221;  Aaaack!<br />
(I love the quote of Meg Ryan&#8217;s &#8220;Oh, I’m so inadequate. And I love myself!&#8221;  I&#8217;ve got the &#8220;I&#8217;m so inadequate&#8221; part down.  Nearly impeccably.  The &#8220;And I love myself!&#8221; is gettin&#8217; there!  And I absolutely do love that!)</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know about all the lore of the year 2012, but it sure does feel like the world and it&#8217;s inhabitants and our way of living is requiring some major shifts in the way we do things.  Maybe it&#8217;s nearing the end times.  Don&#8217;t know.  But it does seem the world could use a lot more love, caring, and compassion right now.  A way to ride the waves of what is happening next.  What would it be like if transparency became more and more prevalent; what if the shifts in the world right now were calling for more connection and vulnerability became a huge asset.  What if we just began to KNOW that is a huge asset and act accordingly.</p>


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		<title>Releasing Shame</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2009 15:29:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shawn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What is it about shame? Holding on to shame, continuing to harbor negative feelings about our sense of shame, severely limits us from being who we’ve been created to be &#8211; we don’t feel great about ourselves because we’re ashamed, feel less than, having to hide something; we aren’t as open as we’d like to [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>What is it about shame?</strong></p>
<p>Holding on to shame, continuing to harbor negative feelings about our sense of shame, severely limits us from being who we’ve been created to be &#8211; we don’t feel great about ourselves because we’re ashamed, feel less than, having to hide something; we aren’t as open as we’d like to be, particularly if we’re seeking authenticity, which so many of us are today.</p>
<p><strong>What kinds of things do women feel shame about?</strong></p>
<p>Well, there are the “big” things lying, cheating, stealing (…oh, Lord, I hate to admit it, I’ve done all of those things at one time or another). The things we did do and the things we didn’t do.  And the other things we wouldn’t particularly want our neighbors or colleagues to know about us.</p>
<p><strong>Where does your body hold shame?</strong></p>
<p>Often shame lodges in the belly and/or solar plexus.  Begin to notice where you feel your body reacting to the shame you feel about a shame-inducing incident.  It feels to me like I’m pulling in, hiding, covering myself.</p>
<p><strong>Go kinda easy on yourself</strong></p>
<p>One of the gifts I’m receiving is an opportunity to heal huge amounts of shame I’ve held on to for years, as well as the more recent stuff.  Although some of it feels pretty crappy, there is also space and a peace, particularly as I can open up and let God into those dark and lonely places.   I am so grateful that I can see the benefits of this process – as it’s pretty foul stuff that’s coming up.  This is what I’ve been asking for…to be clean and used by God.  Wouldn’t it be great to appreciate more of our process/journey?   Hopefully, more and more with time &#8211; I guess this is part of the process, too!  It’s not an easy process, but I can feel it will be well worth it.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #b74772;"><strong>INQUIRY:</strong></span></h3>
<p>How would your life be more fulfilling with less shame?</p>


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		<title>Spiritually directed &#8211; where?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 21:14:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shawn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Carol Costello and I have been working together as part of her Spiritual Director program through Mercy Center. We&#8217;ve come up with the idea of being &#8220;God&#8217;s Girls.&#8221; Imagine my disappointment to find the site for GodsGirls is a PORN site. So disappointing, as I was hoping to connect with other women who feel like [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://soulofselling.com">Carol Costello</a> and I have been working together as part of her Spiritual Director program through Mercy Center.  We&#8217;ve come up with the idea of being &#8220;God&#8217;s Girls.&#8221;  Imagine my disappointment to find the site for GodsGirls is a PORN site.  So disappointing, as I was hoping to connect with other women who feel like they&#8217;re God&#8217;s Girls.  Have to do some checking around.  Bummer about the porn site!  (I guess those girls are God&#8217;s girls, too.  Just not the ones I was hoping to find.)</p>
<p>I love working with Carol on this spiritual direction stuff.  I am just loving being more and more in touch with God&#8230;having more and more of an awareness of His presence in my life.  I love thinking of myself as being one of God&#8217;s girls&#8230;no matter what my age.  Having that glow, being vibrantly alive, no matter what other people think, because God&#8217;s opinion is the only one that matters&#8230;and He loves me being vibrant!</p>


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		<title>Being Real</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Mar 2009 15:52:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shawn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A number of years ago, I had a favorite devotional I used in my recovery program. Somewhere along the line, it fell apart and I probably tossed it. I can’t remember the name and I haven’t been able to find another copy, but I DO remember one of the stories that really touched me &#38; [...]


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<p>A number of years ago, I had a favorite devotional I used in my recovery program. Somewhere along the line, it fell apart and I probably tossed it. I can’t remember the name and I haven’t been able to find another copy, but I DO remember one of the stories that really touched me &amp; I loved reading it! In the story a mother, grandmother, and little girl go to a restaurant and the waitress takes the orders for the two women and then turns to the little girl and asks what she would like. The girl’s mother starts to answer, but the waitress raises her hand to stop her and again, turns to the little girl and repeats her question. The little girl joyously gives her order, the waitress smiles, says “Coming right up!” and begins to walk away. The little girl excitedly says, “Mommy! Mommy! She thinks I’m REAL!”<img class="alignright size-full wp-image-377" title="1164704972c1ctth" src="../wp-content/uploads/2009/02/1164704972c1ctth.jpg" alt="1164704972c1ctth" width="170" height="138" /></p>
<p>I get a little teary when I think of the story…how many of us didn’t feel very real growing up? Even now, it often feels that people are so hungry for been seen for who they are, rather than what they’re doing.</p>
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		<title>Life as an exploration</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 01:51:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shawn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think I should have my life all figured out by now. I am in my fifties, after all&#8230; older than my new doctor. Omigosh. How did THAT happen? And when? I never thought my life would be so much trial-and-error. I guess I thought it was going to be (or at least it was [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think I should have my life all figured out by now.  I am in my fifties, after all&#8230; older than my new doctor.  Omigosh.  How did THAT happen?  And when?<br />
I never thought my life would be so much trial-and-error.  I guess I thought it was going to be (or at least it was supposed to be) try-and-be-very-good-right-away.  In my dreams&#8230;like the one where the I meet this handsome, kind, intelligent, spiritual, rich guy who adores me and we live happily ever after.  Yeah, that one.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #008000;">Life Lab</span></h3>
<p>So, waking up seems to mean that you accept that there&#8217;s a lot of experimenting and trying things out.  This is your Life Lab.  What works here?  What is it you DO want?  Eeeew!  That&#8217;s not what you were expecting!  What&#8217;s next?  And realizing nothing is WRONG, it really is just not the outcome you&#8217;d hoped for.  So, what IS next?</p>
<h3><span style="color: #008000;">What&#8217;s Next?</span></h3>
<p>Just received my copy of <a href="http://www.carrieanddanielle.com">Style Statement by Carrie McCarthy and Danielle LaPorte</a>.  I am excited about delving into this book, probably because when I first heard Carrie McCarthy speak about people being &#8220;thirsty for knowing themselves&#8221; I thought, here&#8217;s a woman after my own heart.   The book seems to offer some great questions for self-discovery, and I&#8217;m jazzed about the process!  McCarthy &amp; LaPorte write,</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;We rarely think twice about what we&#8217;re attracted to.  But what floats our boat &#8211; and <em>why</em> &#8211; is the zillion-dollar question.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<h3><span style="color: #008000;">Inquiry</span></h3>
<p>What do you love &#8211; and why?</p>


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		<title>Joining the revolution</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 15:50:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shawn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This morning I ran across a video clip that made me feel like I&#8217;d found some long-lost family. &#8220;People are thirsty for knowing themselves&#8221; and &#8220;we want to start a revolution in people being authentic&#8221; were two of the first comments out of Carrie&#8217;s mouth. Omigosh! Someone who&#8217;s part of &#8220;my tribe&#8221; that I didn&#8217;t [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This morning I ran across a video clip that made me feel like I&#8217;d found some long-lost family.  &#8220;People are thirsty for knowing themselves&#8221;  and &#8220;we want to start a <a href="http://www.carrieanddanielle.com/">revolution in people being authentic</a>&#8221; were two of the first comments out of Carrie&#8217;s mouth.  Omigosh!  Someone who&#8217;s part of &#8220;my tribe&#8221; that I didn&#8217;t know was out there!  I&#8217;m not alone!</p>
<p>Okay, so I know I&#8217;m not alone, but there are those days when I wonder if I&#8217;m off course with the work I do&#8230;that I long to share.  You know, the &#8220;well, given the economy, isn&#8217;t what you do a luxury?&#8221;  In my heart, my soul, it&#8217;s &#8220;No!  This is some of the most important work imaginable!&#8221;  Knowing yourself, being authentic, finding your own sense of joy, genius, sparkle&#8230;THAT&#8217;S what this precious life is all about!   I&#8217;ve been dabbling in this revolution for several years now, so the revolution&#8217;s started, it just has to gain momentum!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve just purchased the &#8220;Style Statement&#8221; book &#038; looking forward to reading it!</p>
<h3><span style="color: #993366;">Inquiry</span></h3>
<p>Two of the questions asked by Carrie and Danielle were:<br />
What do you love?<br />
Why do you love it?</p>


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